Monday, September 13, 2010

Time with family

We have just returned from a week in the Catskill Mountains of upstate New York visiting family. It was the baby's first plane ride, and she did great. She got to meet two of her Aunties, lots of cousins and friends. She loved being around people. Her little personality is starting to take shape. It's truely a joy to be the mommy of such a sweet girl. It's so surreal that she came out of my belly- a little person!

Living far away from family makes me really appreciate the times we do get to spend together. I especially liked being in the house my hubby grew up, out in the country. It was so peaceful compared to Orlando! I began reading a book about prayer, and have been greatly encouraged. One of the things that really jumped out at me was that God doesn't require eloquent prayer, but that He tells us to come as "little children." So often, I've neglected prayer because I think I don't have time or brain function at the moment to compose a "worthy enough" prayer that is more than a laundry list of wants.

Spending time with family was great, getting to see them in their element, hearing what was on their hearts, watching what makes them tick. It was fun watching Joe joking around all week with his sisters and dad. I do wish I had a closeness with my family. I suppose it's a work in progress. What I really long for is Christian fellowship with my family. Between both sides of the family, there are quite a few variances in religion and faith. I love talking about the Bible and sharing my testimony, but I have come to realize that no amount of talking on my part can change a person's heart and turn them into a Christian. God is the one who is in the heart business, and the miracle business. So my life is a witness- an imperfect one.

Back at home, it's easy to get into my routine, and become self-absorbed (as I almost always am). I like being at home with the baby, and doing stuff around the house, being quiet, coming and going as I please. But I'm feeling a tug at my heart to get more connected with family- starting by praying for them. Now that I have my own little family, I wonder what legacy I will leave behind- I wonder what my daughter will remember most fondly about her childhood.

Saturday, August 21, 2010

Prunes- It's What's For Dinner!

Julia has graduated to prunes!

Actually, it turns out that Julia's rice cereal is fortified with iron, and caused a little bit of a back up (if you know what I mean). I fed her about half a tablespoon of rice cereal every day this past week. Poor little one didn't poop for like 4 days.

Problem solved when Momma found pureed prunes at the grocery store! I guess I'm gonna hold off on the rice cereal and start with fruits and veggies instead.

After doing some research, I discovered that the iron in breast milk is more easily absorbed than the iron fortified cereals. Even though there is technically less iron in breast milk than baby cereals, breast fed babies get more iron from breast milk than cereal.

http://www.kellymom.com/nutrition/vitamins/iron.html

As long as Jules' main diet is breast milk, I'm not too concerned about her iron intake. I surely don't want her to be constipated and uncomfortable. Happy Baby = Happy Mommy!

Prunes are also good cut up in oatmeal, I discovered. Did you know that prunes have more antioxidants than blueberries? Prunes are also good for baking. I made a great German chocolate (carob) cake once using prunes. I found the recipe in a Vegetarian Times magazine a long time ago when I was vegan. Here's the recipe:

http://www.ivu.org/recipes/european/vegan-german-j.html

Tuesday, August 17, 2010

Soaked Oats Experiment

I was diagnosed as having IBS a couple of years ago, and it seems to have gotten worse since having a baby. I have really been at a loss since I am not eating dairy, and cutting way back on sugar has not seemed to have helped. Probiotics haven't made any significant improvement either- in fact, I gave up on them because I haven't been able to find any w/o diary and soy.

Last night it occurred to me that my *strange* love of raw and undercooked oats could be part of my problem. I remembered reading something about soaking oats before cooking them, and dug out my "Nourishing Traditions" cookbook by Sally Fallon to investigate.

To paraphrase the info I found: soaking/fermenting whole grains neutralizes their phytic acid, thereby helping with vitamin absorption, and increasing nutrional value. While eating un-soaked/fermented whole grains can block the absorption of minerals, which can lead to mineral deficiencies, bone loss, and irritable bowel syndrome. Whoa!

I decided to give it a try. I set out a bowl of old fashioned oats, covered them in water, wrapped the bowl in plastic wrap, and soaked overnight- about 10 hours. This morning I actually heated them for 5 minutes on the stove, rather than my usual minute in the microwave. The texture was slightly chewy, but not gummy like I'd expected. Tomorrow I'm going to try adding the acidic component- a dash of lemon juice or apple cider vinegar, and soak the oats a full 24 hours. If it helps my IBS, I'm all for it!

Sunday, August 15, 2010

Hallelujah & Billy Blanks

I'm taking the health "kick" to a new level! I have recently started up Tae Bo again in an effort to have more energy and fit into my closet full of too-tight clothes. Motivation does not come easily when I am tired from lack of sleep, and not feeling well from a poor diet. Well, I'm on the health wagon once again, and I'm gonna ride this one out!

Funny how exercising gives me the desire to eat more veggies and less sugar. I have tried cutting out sugar numerous times, and always relapse back into my sweet addiction. I'm not one for artificial sweeteners (or any "food" that was concocted in a laboratory). Joe affectionately calls me a hippie, but I think I made a believer out of him when I switched his vanilla splenda syrup for vanilla agave nectar!

I came across a Christian vegan website that I heard about from a friend. They have free recipes and a diet program called the Hallelujah Diet. I am encouraged that they do not use soy, as Jules is allergic. Now I was vegan about 12 years ago, about the time I started hapkido and exercising vigorously 4-5 days a week. I felt tired and weak. It could be that I was eating too many starches and sugars, and not enough veggies. I remember eating B12 fortified foods, but I don't remember taking any vitamins.

I hesitate to go vegan again because I already feel tired and weak despite eating animal products and taking prenatal vitamins and supplements. For now, I'm going to try some of the recipes in addition to eggs and small portions of meat. I have never tried greens in my smoothies- this week, I'm going to try them! Time to dig out the blender!

Wednesday, August 11, 2010

Julia's First Solid Food!

Today Julia turned 8 months old! I decided to wait until now to introduce solids to her since she is allergic to dairy and soy (specifically, the protein in the dairy and soy). I found some organic brown rice cereal without soy in it, and it has been sitting in my cupboard until tonight! It was quite the event!

I warmed up some breast milk and mixed into the rice cereal. I used a soft tipped spoon and matching bib to commemorate the event! I dipped the spoon into the cereal and started closing in- and to my surprise, she grabbed it and shoved it right into her mouth! The look on her face was priceless as she realized there was some icky-gooey stuff on it! Poor thing. Maybe I should have started with something like bananas or sweet potatoes. She was so tired, perhaps she'll like it better tomorrow.

God's Grace

My name is Jen. I am a new mom, newly wed, and I guess you could say, a young Christian (who is beginning to feel quite old). I have been transformed by God's amazing grace- and could write a novel about my life before and after Christ entered my life.

Lately I am struggling with trying to do too many things in my own strength. I have always been a perfectionist, I guess you could say proud, and am constantly reminded of how weak I am... especially as a sleep deprived, iron deficient, soy and dairy free breastfeeding mom!

Lamentations 3:23 says God's mercies are new every morning. Hence, the name "renewed by day." It is God's grace that holds me up and keeps me going when the going gets tough. Philippians 1:6 says, "He which hath begun a good work in you will perform it until the day of Jesus Christ." This scripture is so refreshing to me in the busyness of my day to day life. The good news of Christ is that I don't have to DO anything to add to or keep my right standing before God. Jesus has DONE all that on my behalf. So all those times I am feeling overwhelmed and frustrated, and tempted to beat myself up for my bad attitude, I will remember the faithfulness of God, and His mercy demonstrated by Jesus.

It's nice to write to reflect and unwind from the stress of the day. I have much to be thankful for!